What happens in an EMDR session? An Overview by Celia Sadjadi at Indiana Counseling and Resilience Center
What is EMDR?
Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), a highly structured, evidenced based therapy modality, has been taking the world by storm! With high profile individuals such as Prince Harry, Jameela Jamil, Sandra Bullock, and Lady Gaga, singing the praises of this well-established treatment (EMDR was first conceived in 1987 by Francine Shapiro), EMDR has made its way to the headlines of major news outlets, its efficacy being lauded.
Imagine you are looking at a painting at a museum. You notice the colors, the textures, and the canvas, and while the painting might evoke emotions, as a mere observer of the painting, your feelings about it lack significant depth. This is how EMDR can help you to perceive traumatic or unpleasant memories (also known as “targets” in the EMDR process!). After EMDR treatment, you will be able to pull up that memory and observe it in your mind, as if you were looking at a painting or sculpture. You will still remember the details of the incident, but instead of feeling the intensity of the emotions and physical sensations connected to the experience, you will perceive it in the mind as more of a passive observer. This release of physical and emotional sensations when thinking of past traumatic events or unpleasant experiences can be beneficial in the long-term healing of trauma, depression, and anxiety.
In later phases, the therapist and client will revisit the memories of past trauma and implement bilateral stimulation, a core piece of EMDR, into the session. Bilateral stimulation is the introduction of sensation on two sides of the body. This stimulation allows the brain to reprocess memories and experiences. This can be implemented by the client (with the guidance of their therapist) through taps of the knees, using headphones and hearing sounds, using guided eye movements, or other methods. The clinician and client will work together to determine the best course of action for applying bilateral stimulation in a way that feels most comfortable for the client.
Eventually, the clinician will work with the client to replace negative cognitions with congruent positive beliefs. This allows the clients to look back at the past trauma or negative experience with a different perspective and helps them to release past trauma that has been detrimental to living in an optimal state of positive mental health.
EMDR therapy will involve revisiting difficult memories and/or traumas, which can be extremely painful. That said, your clinician is HIGHLY trained and prepared to support you as needed; to even offer EMDR requires dozens of hours’ worth of training and consultation, and your clinician is eager to guide you through the process in the safest, most effective manner.
You are also in control of the process! If revisiting past memories becomes too much, you always have the freedom to take a break, slow down, or close out the session. You are an active player in your EMDR therapy process, and your counselor is there to support you as you make the best decisions for yourself.